Senior Living: Myths and Must-Know
Q & A with Alma Cosme, The Village at Incarnate Word
Q. What are some of the most common myths about senior living communities — and specifically The Village?
A. A big myth about senior living is that it’s only for people in their 80s or 90s. We welcome residents 55 and older — and most residents tell us that they wish they had moved in sooner! At The Village, we also hear myths that you must be Catholic to live here or that only nuns live here. We are home to residents of all faiths and backgrounds.
Q. Is senior living only for people who need daily care?
A. Not at all. Most residents at The Village live independently and enjoy an active lifestyle, with amenities like our indoor pool, wellness center, and the option to audit classes at UIW. If additional support is ever needed, we offer all levels of care and supportive services including our concierge “Peace of Mind” program, Select Rehabilitation services, and Sisters Care In-Home Care.
Q. Can I afford senior living or is it too expensive?
A. We offer floor plans and options for people of many income levels. Many people are surprised to find how cost-effective senior living can be compared to staying at home — especially when factoring in expenses like dining, housekeeping, maintenance, gym memberships, property taxes, in-home care, and more. By taking advantage of our included amenities, you might even end up saving money. Not to mention, many residents and family members say that their peace of mind is priceless.
Q. What are your tips or recommendations for downsizing?
A. It can be hard to part with items that hold special memories, but now is the time to think about blessing your family and friends with your treasures that you want them to enjoy. If you feel overwhelmed, there are resources available. We partner with a local moving company called Generations Team that specializes in senior living and can help you downsize, donate, or hold an estate sale.
Q. How can I see if life at The Village is right for me or my loved one?
A. We offer a 30-day trial stay for new residents to live at The Village and see what it’s really like here. After experiencing it for themselves, we often hear people say, “I never knew senior living could be like this!” Nine out of ten times, they decide to move in.
Q. When should I start considering senior living for myself or my loved one?
A. It’s never too early to educate yourself about your options. There’s a common feeling that it’s “too soon,” but once people explore their options, they often feel relief. Planning early and understanding what’s available can help you make an informed decision that doesn’t feel rushed.
About Alma Cosme
Alma has worked at The Village for 16 years as Vice President of Marketing & Business Development. She has over 31 years of experience in senior living. To learn more about life at The Village, call Alma at (210) 829-7561, ext. 114.








